I have noticed that one of the most important human needs is the need to be heard. To be understood, regarded, validated. I have never met someone that did not want to just get their sentence out. Kids especially.
Abusers take this away early on, if not first. They have to dehumanize.
I have been regarded by some of the most unlikely people, and disregarded by some that just shouldn't. Oh well. Life is full of surprises. I will continue to deliberately empathize. I want to at least try to walk in the other shoes. It's what sums up my faith. If I can understand you, I can treat you how you need to be treated. I believe my kids are better for it. Love to all.
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